Something happened to me earlier this week which on reflection made me re think my behaviour. I felt ashamed of my reaction in this situation, even though to some extent, I could understand my reaction, and many would have done the same. For me what was powerful about the event, and my reaction was the fact that it signified a learning curve for me as a person. Even though I could validate my reaction, I realised that it was at the same time unacceptable in the scheme of things.
The power of reflection of one's behaviour is what makes us as human beings grow, and in some ways I was thankful for the event, because it was a lesson learnt, will build my character, and will allow me to react in a different, more appropriate/socially acceptable way in the future. It will in fact contribute to my serenity of soul, and my humility and enable me to understand the reasoning behind others and my own behaviour in certain situations. It has opened my heart and increased my tolerance.
Sometimes we need to look beyond a situation before judging and be fully acceptable of others behaviour before we mirror their behaviour. I have closure and peace of mind about the situation and know that it will probably not happen again.
Acceptance of the self and others, flaws and all, in conjunction with humility is the first step towards emotional intelligence.
When I was down on my knee
I give thanks for my soul
It made me feel whole...
Again (Alison)
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